Usually when a year ends, some website or TV show will do a short retrospective of famous people who died during the year. For me, the October passing of TV Pitchman extraordinaire Don Lapre was noteworthy, because Don was/is somewhat responsible for my own entrepreneurial business philosophy, both in good and bad ways.
If you don’t know who Don Lapre is, well, here’s his picture – I’m sure you recognize him from late 80′s / early 90′s infomercials.
You see, I first felt my entrepreneurial stirrings watching those infomercials. I LOVED them, especially the make money ones. Don Lapre, Dave DelDotto, Brad Richdale, Tom Wu, the fat guy with the Hawaiian shirt and the wheelbarrow full of money, Carlton Sheets, Tony Robbins (technically not a “make money guy”, but I liked him anyway); the list goes on. I didn’t actually believe that buying the programs was going to make anyone money, but the very principal of what many of them were doing “spoke” to me. Especially Don’s – Don was the best of the bunch. It was just so logical – if you get one newspaper ad that makes money, duplicate it in 500 other papers… OMG - *head explode*. Basically, it made me think outside the box… you could see that in my business now, where I happily spend money advertising my services all over the world. Most people don’t think that big.
But there was something also dishonest about these guys, and especially Don. You see, Don had these “three different ways to make money” (tiny ads, buying and selling, and 900 numbers) and essentially said he applied them himself, dragging himself out of poverty and a one-bedroom apartment… however, Don failed to mention that some of us saw him on TV a few years earlier, pushing a “people who are owed money” list. He said in THAT infomercial that he used to be poor until he did the list thing… so which was it? How come the infomercials that made him famous failed to mention the business venture he was in a few years earlier? I knew then that despite his exuberance (which I loved), he was dishonest.
Don also (like many of the others) never actually mentioned a product to sell. They talked about selling, but never told anyone what to sell. The truth is, these guys were essentially selling a dream, and that’s what got most of them into trouble. Don’s record with the FTC/etc is abysmal, and he eventually stopped selling the making money package. But then he popped up a few years later with “The Greatest Vitamin in the World”… however, the infomercial was obviously “cheap”, and Don didn’t look so hot. That brash, bright-eyed 20-something that I found so inspiring was now a beaten down 40-something huckster. It was sad. More FTC stuff, more fraud claims, and this past October, suicide in a jail cell. A whimper of an end to one of marketing’s biggest stars.
It didn’t have to end that way. His businesses didn’t have to die. He didn’t have to age 30 years in a decade. He didn’t have to cut himself so he bled to death in a jail cell at 47 years old.
How could it have been different? He could have simply been honest. He could have used his charisma and obvious sales talent to make a living that didn’t defraud people or require showing “results not typical” in small letters on his commercials every five minutes. As much as I liked Don, I have to admit that the loudest guy in the room is usually the one who’s full of shit. And Don was loud. And like I said above, even though I liked the guy’s way of “thinking big”, I also knew he was full of shit. And nothing good ever comes from that. Dishonest people may shine bright for awhile, but rarely do they survive long-term. Don didn’t. Neither did Bernie Madoff (or his son, who also killed himself.)
That’s another lesson I learned from Don - How not to be. You can look long and hard, but you likely won’t find a more honest guy than me. And I’m proud of that. Here’s an example – Don probably never met a customer he wouldn’t sell to. Conversely, I routinely turn down copywriting work from people who I know I can’t help. I’ve seen people with horrid websites and a terrible business model who think copywriting is the answer. Sometimes it is, but sometimes it isn’t, and if I feel it isn’t, I don’t want your money, even if you really want to hire me. It’s just how I do things. I do what I say I’ll do, when I said I would do it. And I do things that I think are right, all the time. Everybody should be that way. It almost puzzles me when people aren’t.
As I write, it’s almost 2012, and that always excites me. I’m not one for artificial milestones, but New Year’s really does feel “fresh”. I don’t really have any resolutions or whatnot, nor do I set any goals. I have a general idea of how I’d like things to go, and that’s usually enough for me. I’m looking to expand the consulting side of things this year – what that actually means I’ll figure out in time – it could be simply launching a new website review service (coming soon), and it could mean bigger things. But that’s my overall plan – keep copywriting for anyone who wants it, and get paid a little more for my opinion. Because my opinion is worth a lot!
Have a great “between Xmas and New Year’s” week, everyone.
Dan Furman at LinkedIn